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Sway_27 · Joined: 22 May 2003 Posts: 2

I have just got in from the pub where me and all the people from my club go to. I really like this guy, but tonight I was chatting to his mate a bit. I wasn't flirting, just being my usual friendly self because he wasn't really chatting to anyone and I felt bad for him. However, at the end of the night, he started walking me home. after insisting he didn't have to do this, he said he knows he doesn't have to but he couldnt leave me to walk by myself. At first, I was worried he thought I might like him or something and I was scared of leading him on, but then he asked if I walked home with his friend last week and I said yeh. but he gave me a funny look so I just said that's all we did. he said, whatever you two did was none of my concern (I didnt do anything tho! lol) would he say stuff like this if he liked me? he's a lovely guy but i don't like him in that way, by offering to walk me home does that mean he likes me? he went out of his way as well. I'm confused!

rednecksurfer_roxy · Joined: 09 Dec 2004 Posts: 2

Yes he likes you.No you weren't leading him on.Tell him you don't like him in that way & refuse to see him for a time until he gets over it.

DeepakVasudevan · Joined: 05 Apr 2005 Posts: 3

I bet if you really thought about it you could figure it out. Taking into account male nature. Offering to walk you home may or may not indicate he likes you. Some men are truly concerned, and for valid reasons. But the funny look means he may have at least thought you are beautiful and wondered. This is kinda normal for guys, most are probably better at masking. Sometimes slight feelings of ridiculous jealousy also seem to be a bit normal for guys. Of course ladies never feel that... Subtle signals is all you should need to deal with this. If you weren't actually flirting with him, how could you be leading him on?