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LIGER20498 · Joined: 05 Mar 2007 Posts: 7

my husband moved us out to Neveda 2 years ago, i never wanted to but i love my huband ,i tried. I miss the family so much,im unhappy having them in my life more than 2 or 3 times a year. Im moving back soon,but so sad about my marriage.I never was liked by his mother, control,our home is in her name, on and on.She gives him money monthly ,not to work.I work ,pay my way to see the family.Sad situation.

BartS · Joined: 29 Jul 2003 Posts: 3

sounds like there is no money vested. just take your next paycheck and go home.

PATRICIAMS · Joined: 01 Dec 2004 Posts: 7

Test whether he loves you or cares about you,if not divorce him or if he does then change to a house far from his mothers home so that you both can be alone.

CM · Joined: 15 Nov 2005 Posts: 6

Ask yourself why you married him in the first place....so that yoiu never repeat this pattern again. Then call your family and see if they can help get back to them and start over. YOu never said much about him or his feelings , so I am assuming he and his mommy will be aok without you.Take ALL your stuff, btw - possession is still 9/10s of the law.

Youareallweirdos · Joined: 27 Mar 2004 Posts: 4

Sounds like a miserable situation. Relocation can often be the breaking point in a marriage. It brings out every weakness in the marriage. A crazy mother in law does not help anything either. I feel for you....I wish I could help, but it sounds like the situation is in its final stages....Good luck...

ToniSB · Joined: 23 Aug 2004 Posts: 4

Do you have children to move with you or is it just the two of you....If it's just the two of you, I would ship everything I could to the new location and drive yourself back. If you have kids, contact your family to come help. They might need some extra love and hugs (and you might too) to get through this.Good luck hun, my heart goes out to you!

Jacko · Joined: 09 Apr 2005 Posts: 5

Grow wings and fly. Any man that takes from mon and still has his wife working is not for unity.

CRUDERULES · Joined: 22 Jan 2006 Posts: 3

go to a shelter and tell them whats going on and that your in an abusive relationship and they will get you home...ive seen this happen before, they moved her from Ohio to Pittsburg & back to her family free of charge.

MarilynT · Joined: 31 Jul 2006 Posts: 4

When some one is so selfish and not can see the need of others,then they deserve what they get,you be better if you tell him,before you move on,at least you be fair ,for the love that seems that you still have for him,but do not forget ,love start loving your self first.Good luck.

LoboMike · Joined: 18 May 2004 Posts: 2

listen to the paul simon song "50 ways to leave your lover."

Jennifer · Joined: 08 Jun 2004 Posts: 6

Tell him to grow up and tell his mother to back off and she should let her don pay his own bills as for you i'm very sad that you had to go through a marriage that made you unhappy and if you miss you family that much you should move back or try to visit thenm as much as you can.

DOUBLENET1139 · Joined: 02 Feb 2007 Posts: 3

How do I answer this question? Is it even a question?Anyway.....um......... Just move back. Think of this: a whole family, or a husband?Family > husband. thats what I think. He can visit, and you can visit, but make sure you dont visit on the same days. =] I hope this helps. =]

JulieS · Joined: 18 Apr 2007 Posts: 6

A man who let's mother control his life will NEVER grow up. She cleaerly doesn't understand the part... "a man shall his mother and become one with his wife." So sorry you feel this way . Sounds like you need to get back to your family and get their support through what sounds like a miserable marriage. Any *man* who takes his mother's money rather than take a job... is really.... a girly-man. Leave the idiot and get a real man. I don't usually recommend separation but this guy of yours... is a loser. Big time good luck

abbfan00 · Joined: 18 Sep 2007 Posts: 5

if you don't have children and you are young don't wait a minute he is a mommas boy!! it is sad but you be wasting your life with a mommas boy find a rear man !!

mommytobeof3 · Joined: 31 Aug 2005 Posts: 2

I GOT ONE QUESTION: IS IT WORTH THE SADNESS AND THE DRAMA YOUR LIFE IS FILLED WITH?ITS HARD LEAVING SOMEONE YOU LOVE, BUT ITS EVEN HARDER TO LIVE YOUR LIFE SOMEONE SAD ALL THE TIME:RESEARCH THE PLACE YOU WANT TO MOVE TOFIND OUT ABOUT EMPLOYMENT OF ALL KINDSFIND OUT HOW MUCH THIS MOVE WILL COST YOUIN THE END YOU GOT TO TELL HIM: HOW THIS HAS BEEN FOR YOU FOR CLOSURE SAKE.