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BarryC · Joined: 09 Sep 2005 Posts: 8

Trangender is where you are on gender and you wish to be the other one. I'm curently female however, i prefer acting male and often have male screen names e.g patrick the leprecon.I'm also bisexual with may have something to do with me feeling transgender because i have a limited sense of how i am gender wise. Argh Confusion! I often dress as a man which leads to me being called a tomboy which i accept, but i am not happy about being female... i guess you could relate this to my past a i had to face some pretty horrific things. Mostly involving adult men but for all this is a big sign as to why i don't wish to say as i am. I guess i just need people with similar feelings towards their gender to offer advice.

mburx · Joined: 28 Apr 2004 Posts: 6

thats freaky , im happy to be a man <<<<<< a normal one , not gay

Shaneladd · Joined: 15 Apr 2004 Posts: 4

I don't wish to be a guy. I like being a gal; however, I realize I don't have to be a certain way to be a gal. it's just "parts" and "chemicals" that make me that way. Only sometimes did I really wish to be a guy, and those times, my excessive guy "chemicals" and big imagination were working more, LOL. Here's when I stopped wanting to be one though; I realized my true feelings toward them, so why would I want to BE them, considering how I feel toward the majority of them. Basically. My advice is to search yourself and see what it is you REALLY want and why you really feel the way you do, how to move away from the past too.

LarsC · Joined: 20 Feb 2004 Posts: 5

Just a little Darlin

Mike1477 · Joined: 12 Apr 2005 Posts: 6

Transgender and transvestite are two completely different things.Do you wish to physically become a man?.

CD7431 · Joined: 27 Nov 2003 Posts: 3

I had this feeling when I was a kid, at least younger. I'm 22 now and am straight and ina relationship.When I was younger, I used to like guy's games and dress like a guy and had guys always around me, never a girl, I wouldnt know how to talk to a girl and it would kill me to hear about girl's b********, manicure, pedicure, hairdressing and all.. so silly! I stihl hate these still, but I have learned to be a woman my way, a female my way.You have mentionned that u are bi and not gay, so umay still have a chance to be a gril your own way. The reason why I went back to being more of a girl is because every guy around me would tell me how pretty and beautiful I am till I had a crush on one of them. I still dressed the same way and all, but by and by I got to chose where I wanted to be and why I wanna be there, especially that my father abandonned my mum, sister, and I when I was 4 years old. It was complicated, I totally understand what u're going through, but wish can help more.

tommyfourth · Joined: 23 Feb 2006 Posts: 7

I used to be a transvestite with inlings towards getting a sex change. But the money never materialized and now I'm too old and fat to care. I went from an everyday occurance to once a week. Getting old is not fun. You probably think oh just a transvestite. Wrong, I took female hormones and I got breasts that men don't have, which to me is delightful. I got my ears pierced on both sides to the dismay of the male friends I had. Male friends that are homophobic. I don't like studs, I love danglers....Shoulder Dusters. I love jewelry. I love makeup, I love High heels, Pumps. I'm not fem. I had to take hormones to get fem.

Rushisaband · Joined: 29 Dec 2004 Posts: 4

Not as such but I would identify as a fem. since I do not relate to most things appreciated by men (football, heavy drinking, penetrative sex, fighting and competition). I also like jewellery and to be surrounded by bright colours. Chiefly I just resent being told how to behave in order to fit the perception that others have of what men should be all about. In truth I am finding there is less difference between fem and transgender than I previously realised: I did used to believe that a transgendered person automatically went on to become transexual (ie: get a sex change) and it appears that some do not. I also did not appreciate that others felt, as I do, that they are a blend of male and female rather than identifying with one or other and believing themselves to be in the wrong body - and I look forward to getting to know others like myself. I am bisexual to the extent that I find young, androgynous men beautiful and would jump into bed with them as readily as any woman. Contact me if you wish.

TheRealEstateGuy · Joined: 05 Nov 2006 Posts: 6

LeoF · Joined: 09 Dec 2002 Posts: 8

yup, right here Smile

i dont like being a girl that much. i often wish i were a guy. they have more fun XD *sigh* but not 'till im older Smile

faitparafait · Joined: 17 Jun 2006 Posts: 9

me me! confusion is a bitch, thats for sure.