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[private15ft3886]

I have since remarried after a 5 year battle from a divorce due to ex hubby cheating and custody issues. Ex has a history of domestic violence and anger issues. Never finished anger manangement courses. Lawyer's say irrelevant now. He doesn't want the kids to move out of state. He threatens kids that they will not see family, friends and they basically will never be back if they go with me. He has instilled fear in my children.Let me rephrase my question. Our battle has begun due to the fact that my spouse will be relocating not overseas but about 5 hours by air interstate trave. Ex is trying to take full custody from me without regard to any timeshare. Does not want children to go with me. He tells our children," If they go they will never see family agin!" I am willing to extend out all holidays and vacations to father. I will be the better parent to instill a shared parenting plan. I fear that he will not even let my family that is local not see my kids no matter what the courts say. He has consisitly interfered with visitation. Hope that helps... I need all the tips I can get...I never wanted it to seem I was completley taking them from father. On the contrary, a summer/winter plan will give him more one on one time.

[Krypton]

Then tell the courts exactly what he said to them and have the children interviewed.

[PunkTheORIGINAL]

What is the question? If you want your kids, you have more than enough evidence to take custody from him. If you are going to a red-zone, then you cannot take your kids. If you are going to Japan or Germany, you should be able to take your kids. But again, I need to know what the question is. I was in the same situation.

[sunshine]

Chris;Why would you want to take your children away from their father. Since he is not here to defend himself I only have your word. Sounds to me like you just want to do what you want. I would recommend that you stay put. If your current husband is in the military, let him go do his sacred duty. If you love him, a little time away only makes the heart grow fonder. And the children will still be able to keep a good realtionship with their father. Telling children that there is a good chance that he may never see them again is a concern, not a threat. You really should get away from this nasty feminist attitude of yours. I don't see that this is instilling fear. This is called explaining how the real world works.God BlessFrank PytelSide Note: Various Google searches“Child Custody” : 1,800,000 hits“Child Custody” -Lawyer : 1,680,000 hits“Child Custody” -Lawyer -Attorney : 1,460,000 hits“Child Custody” -Lawyer -Attorney -Judge : 1,260,000 hits“Child Custody” -Lawyer -Attorney -Judge -Litem : 1,250,000 hits“Child Custody” -Lawyer -Attorney -Judge -Litem -Law : 587,000 hits“Shared Child Custody” : 1,270 hits“Joint Child Custody” : 790 hits http://www.deltabravo.net/http://www.fapt.org/index.php?option=com_frontpage&Itemid=1http://www.f4j.com/http://groups.yahoo.com/search?query=shared+child+custodyhttp://360.yahoo.com/my_profile-O8EcRbkhYrI8Y76FID5PBDX6;_ylt=Av95cKrS2heIv727lcF0FuikAOJ3Edit____________________________Sounds like more excuses. Stay where you are, share custody. The kids will be 18 soon enough and then you can go have your fling.God BlessFrank Pytel