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PSWs · Joined: 25 Nov 2005 Posts: 5

Sounds like you are doing the right thing.His mother has total control and will never let go. He doesn't work so will have ample time to chase women.Get on with your life. You are making a good decision.

slinkies · Joined: 02 Mar 2006 Posts: 6

Tell him to cut the umbilical cord or you have to leave. You have to be the one and only woman in his life. Read what Adam said when he met Eve...Genesis 2:24 "For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh." The very first man knew that the mother would be a problem, and he didn't even have a mother! He had something there...You are his wife. He needs to decide which of youwill be the woman in his life. You probably would be okay living in Nevada if it weren't for his meddling mommy. Give him one chance, but give him an ultimatum, and if he chooses her, you're right to leave. A man cannot have two women in his life...unless the other woman is your daughter!

greeneyedblond31558 · Joined: 11 Oct 2004 Posts: 4

divorce him

blahblahblahblahblah · Joined: 15 Oct 2003 Posts: 9

You sacrificed for him, now that where you are is to hard for you, he should sacrifice for you., If he can't then you need to do what is best for you. He sounds like a moma's boy, and that he isn't going to change. He is giving his mom control and access to your relationship especially by being LAZY and accepting her money like that. It's pathetic, especially while you work. I was married to a man like that, and I even asked his father to not give him money. Well he kept giving and my x kept being LAZY, I resented him and didn't view him as a man. It caused so many problems, I felt drained, and that I was the only one giving. I left. I had to, it was killing me inside. Do what you need to do to be happy, your kids if you have any, will be happier because you are happier. If he can't cut the apron strings then move on. It will be hard, and hurt, but in the end you will realize that a man like that, is a taker, and not agiver, and it drags you down emotionally. Good luck to you, stay with family and friends until you get on your feet, and you will get on your feet and feel independant and proud.